The Write Game’s Blog Hop!

Hello and welcome everyone, to Adventures in Writing.  Thank you so much for visiting.  I hope you find my blog helpful and interesting.

I’m trying
 C. Lee McKenzie’s blog hop for the first time and hope I do it correctly.  I decided to look at two famous quotes from Eleanor Roosevelt because I think they can be of use to writers.  

Eleanor Roosevelt said, “No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.”
Sometimes when writers send their manuscripts out for critique or to be published, they can feel inferior when they receive negative comments or rejection letters.
Notice I didn’t say I feel crushed, although sometimes I do.  I try to rise above a feeling of inferiority to allow the comments or rejection to sink in, to notice if the comments pertain to the story I’m trying to tell, to see what revision needs to be accomplished to move from the rejection pile into the publishable pile.
Another nugget of wisdom I’ve gleaned from Eleanor was to “Do one thing every day that scares you.”
Okay, so maybe I can’t do something scary every day, but maybe most days I try to stretch out of myself and submit my manuscripts, hoping not to feel inferior if negative comments come in.  I try to learn from every instance.
Do I succeed?  …Mmmm, sometimes.
But this leads to my own personal quote for writers:
Don’t let a blizzard of activity keep you from writing.
http://victoriamarielees.blogspot.com
The things I do to be alone to write.
I got all the way out to the chairs
and forgot my computer. Can you believe it?
Fellow writers, this means cast out your manuscript into the sea of publishing to see if you can catch a contract.
All the best, in 2016!




This is a Blog Hop!


44 thoughts on “The Write Game’s Blog Hop!”

  1. Hi Victoria.
    I love the quote: “Do one thing every day that scares you.” It's all about being brave enough to venture into the unknown. Which can be scary. But also exhilirating. When we can do this, then we'll spread our wings…grow.
    Thanks for visiting my blog.
    New follower.

    Reply
  2. When I look back over all of the criticisms I've gotten on my writing, I realize that those were what made me a better writer. Even the ones that were way off the mark. You learn so much through that feedback and it helps you grow as a writer. It's just hard to see it in the moment, when it stings!

    Reply
  3. Sometimes criticisms can be cruel, but you have to consider the source. A critic can only tell how THEY would write your book. Sometimes you just have to go with your instincts, right? Thanks for visiting me and Denise on her blog! 🙂

    Reply
  4. Once I took a bit of criticism over the first few pages of a manuscript hard. I thought the critics had to be wrong my character was just fine, they just didn't see the potential. But then I took time and thought about it. They were actually right and I got back the somewhat thick skin I always had with a bit of a lesson added in. While criticism can sting sometimes it opens your eyes to mistakes you can't see on your own.

    Reply
  5. Hello and welcome, Michelle! Eleanor Roosevelt knew what she was talking about. Writers can sometimes be fearful to send their manuscripts out into the world. But you are correct. The only way for people to grow is to take a chance and try something scary. Thank you so much for becoming a new follower. Hope to see you again here on Adventures in Writing.

    Reply
  6. This is true, Stephanie. All criticism of our writings allows us to step back and consider the possibilities. We need to lock inferiority in the closet and move into revision. Thanks so much for visiting Adventures in Writing. Please stop by again!

    Reply
  7. Yes they can, Roland. Writers should always consider the source when applying any critique notes to their work. Then also take time to consider what is being said in the critique. I agree some times the writer's instinct is correct. Thanks so much for visiting Adventures in Writing. Hope to see you again here!

    Reply
  8. Unfortunately, many times I take the criticism hard. I always want to explain why I did what I did. But like you say, Sheena-Kay, many times what they say is true if only I step back and consider the possibilities. Thank you so much for visiting my Adventures in Writing blog. Please stop by again.

    Reply
  9. Hello and welcome, Elizabeth! Yes, Eleanor was; wise enough to allow her wisdom to be found to pass down to descendants of a fine country. Thanks so much for visiting my Adventures in Writing blog and leaving a note. It is greatly appreciated.

    Reply
  10. Hello and welcome to Adventures in Writing, Denise! My understanding was that the blog hop ENDED on Feb. 29, but now I'm not sure. Since I've been hopping around, I think I remember something about March. I'm not sure if there are several hops going on or if they extended it or what. Thank you for following my Adventures in Writing blog. It is truly appreciated.

    Reply
  11. Hi Victoria! I'm visiting by way of Juneta Key's blog. I've always liked those quotes. It's all in the attitude. Book marketing and social media have always been scary to me, so in that sense I do something scary every day. Best of luck with your writing!

    Reply
  12. Hello and welcome, Lori! Thanks for visiting my Adventures in Writing blog. I love Eleanor Roosevelt's insight. It is an attitude, or maybe mindset, for writers to overcome the fear of marketing and social media. Yes, I have this fear as well. Thanks for helping me to see that I do something scary just by attempting to be social online. All the best in 2016.

    Reply
  13. Love these quotes! It was so interesting to read what you had to say about each of them. So glad I stopped by and look forward to more posts! 🙂
    ~Jess

    Reply
  14. Hello and welcome to Adventures in Writing, Christine! I'm always in a rush to get away to write–even in extreme weather. Luckily, I like snow. Thanks so much for visiting and leaving a note. I enjoyed the blog hop! Connected with many new and interesting people. Thanks for hosting it!

    Reply
  15. Isn't it though! Luckily I love snow. But it's difficult to type on a computer in such cold. Eleanor is an inspiration to many people. It's good for all of us to learn from those who came before. Thanks so much, Bish, for visiting my Adventures in Writing blog. Your kind words mean a lot.

    Reply
  16. I hope so! Where do you live? Perhaps it had been cold for an extended period of time and this was the first warm day? Thanks so much, Tamara, for visiting Adventures in Writing and leaving a note. It is greatly appreciated. Please stop by again!

    Reply
  17. These are a couple of excellent quotes. I don't do too many daring things these days–sometimes, but not every day. I don't know too many people who don't have some hint of insecurity, but we can't let those fears keep us from pursuing our dreams. If we believe in ourselves strongly enough, what others say shouldn't deter us permanently. Gotta keep moving on and keep trying to be better.

    Arlee Bird
    A to Z Challenge Co-host
    Tossing It Out

    Reply
  18. Thanks, Lee. I agree. Writers need to believe in themselves–always. I'm not talking about being cocky. I'm talking about feeling that what we are writing is important to both us and others. Keeping fears in check is difficult to do for anyone, especially writers. But as you say, IF we are strong enough we will survive. Thank you so much for visiting my Adventures in Writing and leaving a note. Always a pleasure seeing you here.

    Reply
  19. My pleasure,Tara! This is a great way to connect with fellow bloggers online. Thanks so much for hosting it. And thank you for your kind words. I think Eleanor knew what she was talking about. Please stop by again at Adventures in Writing.

    Reply
  20. Hello and welcome to Adventures in Writing, J. Lenni! Thank you for your kind words. As for the power supply, I could only use my battery. The power cord wouldn't reach. I told my husband to move the chairs closer to the deck, but he wouldn't do it.
    Thanks for visiting Adventures in Writing. Please stop by again.

    Reply
  21. Hello and welcome to Adventures in Writing, Sherry! Yes, Eleanor Roosevelt could deliver keen insight in pithy little nuggets, couldn't she? Thank you so much for saying my blizzard quote is worthy. Your comment is truly appreciated. Please stop by Adventures in Writing again.

    Reply

Leave a Comment